Showing posts with label after life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label after life. Show all posts

Monday, October 7, 2013

Mystic Monday

 
 

This month to get into the Halloween spirit we will be talking nothing but ghost and communication with the other side. We will continue to work on our own energy as well. I’ll sneak some of that in as we go along.

Stevens Point Paranormal will be hosting the second annual Ghost Tours in Stevens Point, WI. The tour will start at Kristin’s Riverwalk. I will be at Kristin’s with the team doing Angel card readings both nights. There are links from my website at www.intuitivewendy.net or www.intuitivewendy.com so you can buy tickets or schedule with me.

This is the time of the year we love to talk about things that go bump in the night. Ghosts, goblins, vampires, werewolves, and other things. So let’s start with Ghost.

Ghosts can take many forms. I use the term ghost interchangeably with earthbound spirits. These are souls who for some reason or another never crossed over and stayed here on the Earth plane that we are on. They may stay behind because they fear what is in store for them on the other side. An earthbound may stay because they are not ready to leave family. Sometimes an earthbound stays because they died before their time and it could have been a quick untimely death with or without trauma involved. In my experiences ghosts that I have come in contact with are here because they choose to stay for one reason or another. Some will move on with help figuring out what it is they need to do, or once they gain closure to what has happened to them. Some will stay.

Ghosts are disembodied people. So every ghost is different, and just like meeting new people, you should use caution when communicating with a ghost that is in your space or has come into your space. Wait, what? They can come into your space. Yep, Ghosts do not always attach themselves to a home. They could attach to an object or a person. If you are living in a home that has more than one home connected in a shared space, a ghost could roam the entire building. I once cleared a townhome of an active ghost who liked to make his presence known by knocking things over or making loud noises. When the home was cleared and the owner educated as to how to keep the vibration in their home raised so that any lower energy couldn’t enter, the ghost moved on to the townhome next door.

There are ways to grid your apartment or townhome with crystals and aromatherapies you can use to keep unwanted energy out of your home.

Objects: Ghosts can stay with their favorite item so be careful when you shop antique stores or estate sales. It’s always a good idea to smudge a purchase to clear it of any energy when you get it home. Just as you would do any stones you buy before you include them in your meditations or energy work.

Crossed over loved ones can pop in and out from time to time, and this is normal for them. Unlike a ghost, these spirits are not earthbound. They have crossed over to the other side and are happy waiting for us to join them. They spend most of their time living a life on the other side doing all the things they like to do but they now do it all over there. They will pop over and check on us and once in a while try to get out attention if they feel like we are making a mistake, or are straying from our path. My dad and I were at my great uncle’s property. My dad was mowing the lawn with his new mower. I was picking up sticks and rocks so he wouldn’t hit them. All of a sudden I heard my great uncle’s voice say, “Wendy, your dad needs to be careful over there with the mower if not he’s going to be mad. He should use the old one.”  Well I was about to flag my dad down when the mower just quit. I looked at him and I said, “It’s ok dad, you’re supposed to quit even though you’re not done because Uncle Hank says you need to stop or you’ll get angry.”  He looked at me and was like too late. The mower had slipped the belt, which really made my dad angry because it was horrible to try to get back on. I guess I didn’t get the warning in enough time. When I told him, he was like, “Yep could have used that sooner.”

I’ve done readings where crossed over loved ones have come through to give closure about their death for their loved ones.

So all this talk about ghosts, I know you’re wondering about the ghosts that are mean or disrupt everything in the home. What about evil ghosts and worse? Well, I can say they are out there but I’ve not yet come across one that was so mean it threw things at me or picked me up or touched me in any hurtful way. Most of the time if a ghost doesn’t want me around it will make me sick in some way to get rid of me. Why? Well a ghost can tell who can sense them by the energy vibrations we give off. Because of meditation and intuitive energy work that I do a ghost can pick up on me as someone who will be able to communicate with them without any help from technology. Yet, then there are those who like to be smarty pants and let the unbelievers know they are around in some shape or form.

So with Halloween on the way I will be doing a protection spell of sorts to make sure my home is protected when the veil thins and communication between the sides is easy for all. I will put sea salt in a bowl and mix in some lavender. Then hold my hands over the bowl and bless the salt. I will then use the salt and walk a circle clockwise around my home starting at the main door and ending at the same door. Then when I’m back in front of the door I usually say an intent that all energy that is not for my highest good is not welcome in my home. Only the guides of myself and my family may enter into my home. I will also smudge the house a little more than normal as this is my first Halloween in my house.

More scary stuff next week with some ghost stories based on experiences, and hey, we need to slip in some personal growth stuff too! This week work on your meditation skills. Practice grounding, centering yourself, and cutting your cords!

Don’t forget to check out my Event page for Ghost Tour information.
 


Blessings All,

Wendy
 
http://www.intuitivewendy.net/



 

Monday, October 8, 2012

Mystic Monday's

 
 

Happy Monday All,

I’m not sure if you all know this, or follow me and/or Savannah on Facebook, but there has been a crossing over in our family.

So I was thinking of what to write about this week and was actually thinking the haunted items blog, but I think we’ll take this time to talk about the other side and what death is or looks like.

HEY! Don't be pushing the button to leave! We’re not going the depressing route here. I’ll talk a little about a personal experience, and then what I believe through my experience with the other side and crossing spirits over.

I was raised Catholic so I grew up with that death means Heaven or Hell or well, Purgatory, the place where if you aren’t good enough to get into Heaven you do ‘make up work’ before you can enter Heaven. Up until 2007 I had been to family funerals and dealt with death as the normal person does. When my grandfather passed and crossed over that changed for me because I was practicing my skills with being a medium.

About a week before my grandfather’s transition to the other side, my aunt—his sister, came to me a few times to tell me that she would be there to help him over. The night before he passed he came to me and said he was done with the chemo and the sickness that went along with it. I said it will be “okay” and your sister will help you over. The next day my dad called to say that Grandpa had passed. My grandpa was helped to the other side from my aunt. I remember there being a feeling of peace and knowing he was fine.

In 2002 a friend of mine went missing and was later discovered murdered. We were once very close. I started to feel someone in my house. Then I started hearing our song. I went to my Reiki Master for a session and while I was under in deep meditation on her table there was a bright gold light and then I could see him and feel him on my right side. He bent over and kissed my cheek and said, “I miss you and I'm ok”. That was huge for me. I asked my master, “What the crap? Who was here and how?” She said, “You know who was here and how, I do not know other than he has to be very important and working with you for your highest good because my guides would not have let him in otherwise, they don’t just let anyone in. He is going to help you on this journey of yours with healing and being a healer.”

Over the years I’ve learned this. Now you can agree with me or disagree with me, it doesn’t matter. I’m simply sharing what I have learned on investigations and working with crossed over loved ones.

The other side is all love. It’s unconditional love. When you die from this earth life you cross over to the other side where we are home. Your relatives from your soul group are there to greet you and help support you as you get used to life back on the other side. Life goes on over there just as it does here. There are animals, homes, lakes to fish on and whatever you want.

When you cross over you are taken to the Great Hall with your guides where you review your life and the lessons you wanted to learn, along with the chart you had made before being born. You then determine if you’ve learned everything you wanted to learn and if you will want to incarnate again. Once that review is done it’s business as usual. You can pop in on your earth bound loved ones and you can wait for them, or you can incarnate again to be with them in a different form.

I’m hearing it’s important to tell you this: When you cross over you are leaving this physical body and all behind. So when you are crossed over you can pick the age you want to be over there. This age does not affect how you will manifest when you talk to your loved ones who are earth bound. You will also leave disease behind or any disfigurements.

I know this first hand due to a reading I gave with a group of women. The spirit of the grandmother came through during a reading session. She was showing me hands that were swollen with huge knuckles all balled up and she could barely move them. I heard "arthritis" and told the women what I was seeing. Then I heard, “But my hands are now beautiful like yours, deary, and they need not worry I’m not in pain any longer.”

Before we are born we chart our lives. We chart the lessons we want to learn. We have choices. Choice A may lead this way and choice B will lead our soul to learn that way. We can choose our children and our partners. But because of free will we may choose backups. We even choose exit points where we can cross over and how.

Murdered victims may choose that exit because they are teaching the people around them a lesson through the murder. People who die younger may also be choosing to teach their family and friends a lesson, vs learning a lesson themselves from their short life. Have you ever felt like you have been through something with someone before and you feel like they aren’t getting it and you’re just done no matter how much pain it causes you to walk away? Chances are you’ve contracted with them to teach them something and they aren’t getting it so you walk away.

Death isn’t the end; it’s a transition from this learning plane to the next. You will see everyone you love again on the other side and you will help them out in another life time or in another way. Have faith you will see your loved ones again. Remember, time on that side doesn’t work like time over here.

So what do I want you to take away from this blog? Life is your time to learn your lessons to advance your soul. You will be reunited with your people on the other side. The other side is unconditional love. I’m told it’s beautiful and whatever form of God you believe in is all loving and forgiving. Judgment is on you, you judge yourself harder than what your all loving parents will.

With that I wish my family members peace and love and light as they get through what they perceive as a dark and sad time. It’s never easy to lose a loved one physically on this side. But they are truly never lost, they’ve just beat us home. Talk to them often if you need to and listen for their answers and look for their signs. I’m always amazed when I feel depressed and like crap over things, like being dumped by a guy or having a hard day, and then I get in the car to make the commute to work and our song is on the radio. Now our song is a song the radio never plays, so in my mind it’s my friend manipulating the radio-waves and letting me know I’ll be ok. That is my sign. J

Maybe next week we will talk about charts and the records. Oh hey we can’t forget Halloween though! J

 

Blessings All,

Wendy

 

Wendy Jackson

Intuitive Healer/Reiki Master