Monday, July 28, 2014

Mystic Monday

Hi All,

Dates to know this week….

August 1, Friday, is Lammas. Lammas marks the start of the harvest season.
Okay well let’s jump right in! I’ve been kicking around a few topics for today so let’s see what comes out shall we?

I wanted to address Death since that’s been recent in my life and the experiences that go along with Death.

I think it was in the movie “The Mummy” with Brenden Frasier the Mummy said “Death is only the beginning”. The beginning of what? The cycle we follow of birth into this world, life and then death in order to cross back over when we’ve finished our lessons here? It’s an interesting question. Then I got to thinking not everyone crosses over right away (I’ll cover this more) so, where do they go in the in between or are they crossed over and come back so soon to pop in on us as we make the preparations and go through the motions of our good-byes here with the rituals of wakes and funerals. Is there a ‘grace period’ we have that we cross over at shortly after the time of death and then instead of being greeted by our team and relatives in our soul group then whisked away for a life review, or are we allowed time to pop back to console our loved ones at our funeral before going back to the other side and reviewing our life?

I ask these questions because as a psychic I don’t always know the answers. It seems now that I have worked on my abilities to communicate with the other side and have experienced 3 deaths over the last few years and everyone has been different.

Let me explain the differences. My grandpa passed years ago. His was the first death in the family I had experienced with having my abilities back. Before his death I had a warning from my great aunt Gloria, who died well before I was born. She came to me about a week before he died and said she would help him make the transition and I need not worry about him. The day he died he popped in on me as I was getting ready and said, “I’m with Gloria now.” A few minutes later my dad called to tell me the news. 

My grandma was recent. I had seen her a few weeks before she died. My great grandma came to me and told me it wouldn’t be long before my grandma would make the transition to crossing over and she actually gave me a time frame. 

Recently my favorite uncle died unexpectedly. My mom called me to give me the news late one night. It took a good hour or so for the shock to set in. I had no warning this time. I couldn’t believe it. There was a visitation and I was there all day and my uncle picked on my and joked with me as I was the only one to see or hear him. It was different because he hung around at his visitation. My grandparents had popped in and out of their services. So to have my uncle hang out with me all day was a new experience for me. This is why I question do they cross over first and then have a period of time they can come back quick to see their wake, funeral or whatever then go back and do their life review, or is there a time after all the services are done that they stay for and then cross over. I guess every situation is different. I do remember at some point during the visitation he said to me tell her I have the damn dog. So for you out there that wonder what happens to your beloved pets, they are waiting for you over on the other side just like your relatives.

One thing did come up a lot at the visitation that I want to address because it applies to every one of you reading this. I had strangers coming up to me and shaking my hand saying, “I’m sorry for your uncle but what a blessing your gift is that you can comfort your aunt and still talk to him.” I’d say thank you and smile politely. But my brain was going, you all can do this! We are all born with it! 

Let me leave you with this:  We are all born with the ability to communicate with the other side. You are supposed to hear your angles, guides and loved ones. But we are told by society that it’s not “normal” so we shut it off when we are children and forget. With practice and meditation you can communicate or do healing work too. Your abilities will be at different levels depending on what you are talented at and how much you practice to bring them back. Meditation is the key. Here is what I tell everyone at my classes and expos: “We all have hands to pick up a football, we can learn to throw it, pass it, kick it, but we all do not have the ability of Arron Rogers. We all have abilities, some of us can tap into those abilities easier than others but regardless, you can access yours just as I use mine. Practice and patience. 

Have a great week and Blessings All,

Monday, July 14, 2014

Mystic Monday

Hi All,

Before we start I want to say a BIG Happy Birthday to my brother even though he most likely doesn’t read this blog…lol  Happy Birthday!

Okay let’s start with this crazy Super Moon we all experienced Friday and Saturday this past weekend. Did you feel a change in your energy? I was emotional and for lack of a better word, antsy all day. I couldn’t keep still. I felt like something was about to happen and never did. You know, you get that nervous feeling in your stomach. I had it all day. It sucked! So for the moon I sat in meditation and wrote out what I would like to bring into my life. Then I went out under the cloudy sky and said my prayer and burned my paper and then scattered the ashes back to Mother Earth. I felt a little better. I need to do a better job, I think, of cutting cords throughout the day and getting back to some of my “101” Reiki training. 

Let’s jump in with where we left off last week and talk this all through, shall we? 

Maybe you guys can help me shed some light on things for me as well.

So, Twin Flames; we talked about that this is the person who shares your soul. The soul split apart and the two of you incarnate usually at different times to have human experiences that help to bring your soul closer to enlightenment, or to the Source. Now from what I understand the two will only incarnate in the same life together if they have learned all that is needed for their greater good and evolution. Usually this means this is the last life they will incarnate on this planet to learn. When you find your Twin Flame the relationship can be on and off again and it is almost always intense. You have this unexplained pull, this draw to be with the other person. Things that person does may drive you absolutely insane because they are a reflection of you and what is driving you nuts are things you have to work on yourself. You may part from your Twin Flame in this lifetime but you will come together again once you have both moved on with what it is you are both to learn. Sometimes this means your Twin Flame must be in a different love relationship because the person they are with at that time can only teach them the lesson they have to learn. This is a hard concept to grasp. Because if that person is here to find you then why don’t they just get it? Great question and there are many answers. But the time now I guess just isn’t right for them to be with you. That person is learning a lesson from someone else that will eventually bring him or her back to you. You at the same time are learning a lesson as well, so don’t get upset, I know it’s hard, but just release for the highest good and move on. 

Now I know this is a very hard pill to swallow as I myself am working through this and my friends have been amazing with this support. But my other is someone I can’t let go of and I guess I do unconditionally love this person so I have to let him go and learn and make mistakes with someone who is not me so that maybe someday he will get it and we’ll be together. Does this mean I’m not going to get out there and meet people and have fun? Heck no, but it means that I take this time to work on me. Why is it he can push my buttons so and even only after talking how can I be so attached? These are things I need to look at. It’s a time for me to look at “me” and ask.  “Okay what needs work?” I’ve been using the time to heal the past and present, and just be happy. I’ve been working on finding happy again and I believe that’s all I can do. Eventually the person, my twin flame, soul mate whoever will come in and it will be an unconditional love relationship where we are both healthy for each other. 

Soul Mates: I wanted to bring this up because the feeling of a soul mate can be that of a twin flame. This person is someone you feel connected to on a deep level. It’s like you know them. You and this person have been together in many different roles through many lives. I think a soul mate though is someone you can walk away from and be okay not coming back to and eventually as time passes you see that it was a soul mate relationship and not your other half. I can’t explain this but I believe I’ve had this happen. The lesson or karma payback for me was learned and then I and the other could move forward and be okay without the other.

With a Twin Flame the honeymoon period never really goes when you are together but it is enhanced through the time you are together and the unconditional love you share with each other. If that makes sense. 

This is a hard topic because the two are, or can be, so close in how they feel. I am still learning how to figure out the differences. The person who I think is my Twin Flame though seems to have a pattern and I’ve just now recognized it and then we come together it seems. History repeats itself and I guess it does for us too until we learn from it. So I hope this time we’ve learned something.

Well my friends there you go, some food for thought and please comment if you see a different way of looking at this or a different definition because this is new to me and I’d love to learn from those who know more.

Blessings All,

Monday, July 7, 2014

Mystic Monday

Hi All, 

The only date to save is’s the Full Moon.

This week I have been talking to some other healers about stuff that has been coming up.

One sent me a video clip for Twin Flames. Then this weekend I had problems with a guy friend, who a friend/healer of mine told me a while ago that he’s my “Twin Flame”.

What does this all mean? I have no clue so I researched it, lol. 

So today we will be talking about Twin Flames and I by no means have all the answers since this is new to me as well. I mean I’ve heard the term kicked around a lot but never dove into figuring it out. Please keep in mind this is something I am still working on.

Twin Flame:

What the heck is a Twin Flame? A twin flame is the other half of your soul. After being split the two halves go their own way. They incarnate over and over to gather experiences before coming back together. Usually they do not incarnate at the same time. One stays on the other side to help out. 

When they do get together in a lifetime it is usually stressful and chaotic because the two are mirrors of themselves. So what you see that really pushes your buttons in the other are areas in your life you need to work on. Because twin flames reflect each other’s imperfections they both need to be healed of all their issues before they can be together with the unconditional love they have for one another. They have to have harmony in their life in the areas they no longer need to work on. The attraction for twin flames is a strong one on all levels, especially spiritual. The two will feel like they are home when they are with each other. When they are apart they feel like they are missing something and are a bit unbalanced. When they are together the energy is balanced and they become more of who they really are because they are in each other’s energy.

If twin flames come together when they aren’t ready to they will then separate because of their individual emotional stuff that needs to be worked through. When you are with your twin flame there can be nothing between the two of you blocking your closeness.

So that is what I know so far. I will be doing some more work in this area and continue next week. Please send me questions that I can research answers for and I’ll be happy to put them in next week’s blog.

Blessings All,

Monday, June 30, 2014

Mystic Monday

Hi All,

Let’s get started shall we? Over the years we’ve talked about everything and anything but I’m not sure we’ve ever covered what you can expect as a client during a session, so this week we are going to look at the client’s point of view.

It is a Reiki practitioner’s job first to make you comfortable. If you for any reason do not feel comfortable with your practitioner, simply switch. Listen to your gut. I have done sessions at client’s homes through home parties and at an office I rented. The office I rented wasn’t comfortable for me. I don’t like to hear other people and their noise when I am working. I have also done sessions at my home where I can control the noise, and at Expos where I can’t control the noise but the energy can be pretty amazing with so many like-minded people in one place.

As a receiver of Reiki it is your job to lay there on the table and relax. If you fall asleep no big deal I’ll wake you up at the end. Some people like when I talk during a session and some want me to wait until the session is over to give them an overview of what I have picked up.

To start a session I will hold your hands while you are sitting on the table and say a Prayer of Intent. This is where I ask everything be done for your highest good.
Next you lay down on the Reiki table. You can have pillows and a blanket if you need them. You will then take three deep breathes in through your nose and exhale through your mouth.

I will then begin by opening your aura and hovering my hands over your body getting familiar with your energy. I always work head to toe. I am feeling for stuck energy or unbalanced chakras. To me this feels like pins and needles in my hands. To the client it could feel like nothing, or a sensation of hot or cold. I have had a client report that the energy felt like waves of water. So really it is very different for each individual client. 

As a client I go under quick. When I lay on my Reiki practitioner’s table and she has me take three deep breathes, I’m gone. Many times she will talk me through what she is doing and then I share what I am getting and then low and behold we are having a conversation with my guides, her guides and us. 

People who have been my clients have reported they enter a very relaxed state that continues after we are done. Some clients even have crossed over loved ones come to them as we are working in their session. Others have past lives come through that allow us to work on that life to heal situations in this lifetime. When this happens the two of us share back and forth what we are getting. 

Readings are very different. Just like a Reiki Session I will start with a Prayer of Intent. As a client you will pick whatever deck of angel cards you like best. Then you will shuffle them as much or as little as you wish while thinking of a question or what you would like help with. After I spread them out you will then pick 5 cards. We will then go over each card individually then as a group. During your session as we go through cards you can ask more questions if you wish. During readings clients have had crossed over loved ones come through as well as in Reiki Sessions. When this happens most clients are given things they know to confirm who it is that is trying to come through with a message. At the end of the reading I will ask you the question you were thinking of when you were shuffling the cards and if we covered the question.

I hope this answers some of what can be covered in sessions or readings. Have an amazing Fourth of July. I will be in the U.P. of Michigan visiting friends and some of my favorite places as a kid.

Blessings All,