Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Beware the Dybbuk ~ Part One

Beware the Dybbuk
By Robin Renee Ray
Part One
         
          The mansion stood alone at the back of a long, dark driveway that passed through a maze of Willow trees that were so thick it was hard to decipher one from the other. Lady Bernstein had lived in the mansion from the time her family had migrated to the United States, escaping the holocaust that took all that they had left behind. It was her death that brought her brother’s children to her home, to begin the daunting task of packing. A task that would take the four, much longer than they ever had expected.
          “You mean to tell me that someone lived out here?” Sam, the youngest asked.
          “Dad said she was one of those people that was very reclusive, that’s why we never met her. I think she had like a butler or something,” Cindy, the second to the oldest replied.
          “She was like that because her husband and kid got killed in a car accident back in the fifties. You guys really need to pay more attention when the folks are telling old stories.”
          “Sure Mike, like you actually believe half of the stuff they say,” Gabby the oldest girl, laughed. “They’ve been telling us stories about their history since we were old enough to understand words.”
          “I believe the stories,” Sam added, leaning up on the back seat. “I’ve read about it in school.”
          “No silly, I believe those stories…it’s the ones they would tell us when we would do something wrong.”
          “I’m not silly, you are.” Sam sit back then rolled down his window. “These trees are a trip, they’re hanging so low they’re touching the car.”
          Mike drove the car through the open gate that allowed them to get their first view of the three story mansion. “We have to pack all the stuff in that?” Gabby spoke as she leaned forward. No one could stop looking out at the big home as Mike came to a stop in front of the columns that held up the large front porch. Seven steps led up to an arched shaped, immaculately carved, wooden door that had a single diamond shaped window in the top center. Faded brown shutters decorated every window that could be seen on the stone home and vines were working their way up to the second floor balcony.  
          “Dad sure didn’t say anything about this,” Cindy said as she rolled her window down. “I bet it’s haunted.”
          “Shut up, Cindy. There isn’t no such thing.” Sam slapped her in the arm.
          “Hey! Hit me again and I’ll start talking about the one thing you really hate little boy.”
          “I’ll be eighteen in one month and I’m only a year younger than you. And if you say one word about…you know what, I’ll do more than hit you.”
          “Oh sure, you’re so grown that you’ll run and tell daddy.” Cindy burst out laughing.
          “You both need to grow up.” Mike killed the motor and got out.
          “And don’t pick on him, Cindy. It wasn’t too long ago that you would freak out when you heard anyone talk about the…”
          “Don’t say it, Gabby,” Sam interrupted. “Remember what dad said. Just even mentioning its name can bring it up from, you know where.”
          “It’s called, hell, stupid. Seventeen, really Sam.” Cindy opened her door as she spoke and got out.
          “Just ignore her, Sam. Will make her pack the basement and then make fun of her when she starts crying about it being too scary down there.” Gabby looked back and smiled.
          She and Sam got out and walked up to their other siblings who were already standing at the foot of the steps. It was Mike who walked up and rang the doorbell then quickly walked back down the steps to join the others. They waited a few minutes, then Mike and Gabby started back up the steps, no sooner did they reach the door and the door swung open. Gabby screamed and would have bolted had Mike not grabbed her arm.
          “You must be Lady Bernstein’s kin,” a man said with a gruff voice and with skin so wrinkled it looked like old leather.
          “We are. I’m David Bernstein’s oldest son, Mike and these are my sisters and brother. We’re here to…”
          “I know why you are here,” the old man interrupted.
          “May I ask who you are?”
          The old man nodded, “I am known as Mr. Gray. If you will get your things, I will show you to your rooms. Then after, I will be on my way.”
          “You mean you won’t be staying?” Gabby asked, shock filling her voice.
          “I am no longer needed,” Mr. Gray said then turned around and walked back into the dark foyer.
          “Come on, let’s get our bags. The sooner he’s gone the better,” Mike whispered as he walked back down the steps with Gabby at his side.
          “Who was that?” Sam asked.
          “The boogie man,” Cindy laughed.
          “I don’t think that was funny,” Gabby glared at her little sister. “And you won’t either when you get as close to him as we were.”
          The four siblings got their bags out of the trunk of the car and with more doubt than they’d had since they drove out from their home in the city, they made their way up the steps and into the dark foyer.
To be continued…..
 

Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Fall is in the Air...


Fall is in the air! That’s been apparent this past week here in Wisconsin where the day time temperatures have been pretty darn chilly reaching only into the 50’s and lows as cool as 34 degrees at night.

This past Saturday officially kicked off Autumn. Are you feeling it yet? The sights and sounds of the changing season? No????? Well, let be help you get in the mood for the cooler temps and the fast approaching holidays. Okay, I’ll try to restrain myself from posting Christmas stuff for now J

Sit back and enjoy what Autumn has in store for us…
 
 


Autumn is a season for big decisions — like whether or not it’s too late to start spring cleaning.


 

 
 
I got tired of looking at all those leaves in my yard, so I got up off the couch and went into action. I closed the curtains.
 





 

Now, today’s lawn & garden tip. If you haven’t found the hedge trimmer yet, forget it. It’s almost time now to lose the leaf rake.
 
 
 



 


 
 

 
 
 
 
 

 



 





 
 
 
 
 
 
 


 

 


 
 
 
 
 






 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

 
 
 
 



 
 

Monday, September 24, 2012

Mystic Monday's




Hi All,

How many remembered the Equinox? Some of my friends are reporting a shift in the energy. Some of us are feeling down and out and some of us are feeling stuck. If you're feeling this way and I know I am, it's more than likely do to the energy of the Fall Equinox. So just push through it and it will move on soon.

Also Saturday the 29th is the full moon. So you should right now be in manifesting mode until the night after the full moon. Remember the full moon is the time when manifesting energy is at its highest. On full moon nights I have a ritual where I sit up at my alter (old trunk) light a candle with my music going and write out everything it is that I want. Then I take my small cauldron and go outside by my birch tree and locate the moon. While looking up at sister moon I give a prayer of intent that my list be brought to me in this life on this plane. Then I read my list and burn it to release it to the Universe. I then empty the ashes under the birch giving it to Mother Earth. Then I go inside and warm up...lol

It's getting colder up here in Wisconsin at night. J

After all of that I may sit down again and give thanks for everything I already have in my life such as the roof over my head, my job which allows me to pay the bills and the health of my children and what not. I also include in here my guides and their unconditional love and support along with any crossed over loved ones.

It's your ritual so do what you feel is best for you and may you be blessed with your work.

I’ve been thinking a great deal this week about ancestors and abilities and where abilities come from. If we all have healing and psychic abilities as our birth right, does our inherited bloodlines help bring those about? These are questions I have no answer for, I have opinions but really no answer. Like why me when I have a brother and cousins who share the same bloodlines but have no abilities what so ever. I've been told by crossed over loved ones that I chose to have heightened abilities and am the only one strong enough to handle these abilities. Nobody in my family from my mother's side can remember anyone having abilities. My father's side is lost to us. We never knew my grandfather and my abilities came through after the death of my great grandfather so there is nobody to ask on the Jackson side. Yet I feel a strong connection to people on the Jackson side that I've never met.

So my answer to that question is this, I believe that everyone is born with abilities but if you are a part of a family with abilities, yours will be stronger because you have relatives who can teach you and bring out those abilities more. I also believe that it does run through families and somewhere out in CA there is a Jackson family member (kucserka/sellinger) who knows of the history but hasn't been able to share. Ok off that soap box...sorry for my ranting on that subject just something to set all of your minds thinking and maybe we can kick up a good chat in the comments section. J

Ok here is where I'm going to plug some events. Look for me at Kristin's River Walk on the 27th of October. The Stevens Point Paranormal Club will be running Ghost Tours around Stevens Point from Kristin's. I will have more information posted on the website this week. I will be at a private party on the 28th of October. November 3rd… I want to plug this so if any of you Chicago girls can make it up, I'm sure Savannah Rayne would love to have you over, I will be doing a "reading" party at Savannah's house. J

I am hoping to start some work with the shadow self and pass on what I am doing so that you may include it in your work as well. I am also looking into working with flower essence. So there may be some new topics out for Mondays to come.

Ok, who is working with stones or thinking of it? This just popped in my brain that I should quick write about picking your crystals so here goes.

Make sure you can hold the crystal you are looking at in the store. Why? Because you want to be able to feel the energy of the crystal and if it feels right to you. If it doesn't feel comfortable then put it down and pick up another. When you get your crystal home be sure you clean it. Smudge it with sage or palo santo wood. Then you want to give it an intent. Tell it what you want it to help you with. Is it a healing stone or one of protection? It's important to program the stone or crystal with your intent of how you want it to help you.

You can do this by holding up your crystal that has been smudged and then blow your intent into it. I always attune mine to Reiki as well. Then carry your stone or crystal around with you for a while so it can pick up your energy vibes. Then use it in your work. You should smudge it every now and then to clear it of any negative vibes it picks up.

 
Any questions please feel free to ask away. J

Blessings to you all,

Wendy

 

Wendy Jackson

Intuitive Healer/Reiki Master


 

Monday, September 17, 2012

Mystic Monday's

 
Hi All,
It's been a busy weekend driving everywhere. I drove to Wisconsin Rapids this Friday so I could stay over and be up early for the Fright Night Fundraiser at the First Ward School in Wisconsin Rapids.
I got there at 9 am to set up my table. When I entered the school and then came out to my car to start getting my stuff I swore I heard the "Shepard" spirit say "You can stay."  I was like ok I guess I'm staying. When I walked through the Kindergarten room I had the kids run up to me and I got cold. They told me "he's mean to us" and I picked up on their anxiety, yet I had no clue what the crap was going on. The energy in the building seemed off. So Justin and I started talking and I followed him downstairs to find a table and he was telling me of Friday night’s events. Apparently the Shepard spirit wasn't happy with all the people that had been in and out investigating. There has been light bulbs popping and people getting pinched and scratched. He also said that all of the psychics who were on a panel ended up leaving early because they were all sick or had headaches, so the building was messing with their energy. He said be careful today and protect yourself, the Shepard is upset. I said well that explains the kids then they ran up and started saying he's mean to us. I told the kids they could hang out in the area where I’m set up today. On and off all day in the landing where my table was I was getting cold. I never felt a threat but I did feel like the (ghost) kids were there because it was a "safe" place for them.
I did go back later that night when investigations were going on but I was there more to talk with Heather and we pretty much went out back to sit by the fire and drink a little. While sitting by the fire though I had my ponytail pulled.
I really don't have much to report on the school house since I didn't go and do an investigation.
So throughout the stay I traded services with other healers that were there in our little corner. I learned a great deal about myself and helped some others with their skills and practices. So the day was a good day.
Saturday was the new moon. Did you remember? 
The full moon is coming up on Saturday the 29th. Be sure to mark that down!
I am going to start some work with the shadow self so maybe we will touch on that next week.
As far as this week I want you to find your style of how information comes to you and you need to let me know how meditations are going. We will pick up with healings next week unless something else comes through.
 
 Blessings All,
Wendy
 
Wendy Jackson
Intuitive Healer/Reiki Master
 

Friday, September 14, 2012

When Someone You Love Has a Chronic Illness ~ by Tamara McClintock Greenberg, Psy.D.

 

Book Description
Publication Date: February 14, 2012

Dr. Tamara Greenberg offers hope and practical advice to those impacted by a loved one’s chronic illness. Providing easy-to-understand explanations for complicated feelings and behaviors, this book will help you not just cope, but thrive in your day-to-day life. Learn the important tools you need to help lighten the burden we all feel when someone we love is ill.
 
 
Thanks to advances in science and medicine the lifespan of the average American is now longer than ever and many illnesses that once would have proven fatal have become manageable, chronic conditions. Great news, right? Sure, but there is another side to the 21st Century health picture—and it is increasingly becoming part of the lives of Americans. Many more people are living with chronic illness and that means that more than ever family members, friends, and partners are needed to provide formal or informal support.

The average life expectancy in 1920 was around 54 years of age. Today it is between 76-80, though many of us can expect to live much longer—and to be the official caregiver or part of the care giving team for a loved one. For those of us not involved in formal caregiving roles, it is increasingly vital to know what to do and what to say when someone we know is ill. Knowing how to help is crucial to being able to sustain meaningful relationships in this unchartered time of uncertain longevity.

That’s why Tamara McClintock Greenberg, Psy.D., a clinical psychologist who specializes in treating individuals with chronic illness and their families, wrote WHEN SOMEONE YOU LOVE HAS A CHRONIC ILLNESS: HOPE AND HELP FOR THOSE PROVIDING SUPPORT (Cedar Fort Books, February 2012, ISBN: 978-1-59955-939-1, Trade Paper). In this groundbreaking book McClintock Greenberg shows readers how to provide the best care for their loved ones, without losing themselves.

When family, spouses, and friends are thrust into formal or informal caregiving roles they face a variety of psychological and physical challenges, and they often find themselves with little support and few resources. They also must address difficult issues such as non-compliance, denial, chronic pain and frustration on the part of their struggling loved one. No wonder, then, family members in a caregiver role have higher rates of depression and anxiety than those who aren’t involved in providing care. Vicarious trauma and “compassion fatigue” are common, as are feelings of guilt about having needs of their own and attempts to carve out time for themselves. Self-care can start to seem like a luxury that is out of reach. It’s easy to see how this exacts a steep toll on the caregiver, but new research also tells us that it impacts those being cared for. Studies now show that those who devote sufficient time and energy to their own needs provide better quality care than those who don’t. In other words, we provide better support when we pay attention to our own needs.

So, how can caregivers meet the demands of care giving without sacrificing self-care? Throughout WHEN SOMEONE YOU LOVE HAS A CHRONIC ILLNESS: HOPE AND HELP FOR THOSE PROVIDING SUPPORT McClintock Greenberg offers compassionate, authoritative, and step-by-step help for striking this critical balance. At the end of each chapter readers find a “coping checklist” that provides helpful, no-nonsense guidance on how to best address their loved ones’ needs and their own.

 

An excerpt from When Someone You Love Has a Chronic Illness:

Illness makes us uncomfortable. No matter how sensitive we are, no matter how well we listen to others, and no matter how much illness has touched our lives, bodily limitations remind us of our vulnerability. When people we care about suffer, it can make us feel helpless. We are unable to take away their worry, their physical pain, and the suffering they must endure.
So, What Do You Say?
When someone is sick, it is customary to ask for a brief update and then change the subject to something lighter. When people let down their guard enough to acknowledge that they aren’t quite sure how to help someone who has been affected by illness, the first thing they say is, “I just don’t know what to say.” This is a good starting point because it confronts the fact that there is often no right thing to say or do. Being present, aware, and mindful is what matters most. That being said, there are some things that can be construed as not helpful, and I’d like to help you avoid those things. In other words, if I had to put it in one sentence, I would say, be present and try not to say offensive things.

Title: When Someone You Love Has a Chronic Illness: Hope and Help for Those Providing Support
Author: Tamara McClintock Greenberg, Psy.D.
Genre: Non-Fiction: Relationships, Self-Help, Coping with Illness
Published by: Cedar Fort Publishing
Publication Date: February 2012
Recommended Age: Any
Format(s): eBook, Trade Paperback
ISBN 13: 9781599559391
Number of pages: 176

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Author, Tamara McClintock Greenberg, Psy.D.

Tamara McClintock Greenberg, Psy.D., M.S., a licensed clinical psychologist, works with patients and family members affected by acute or chronic illness. She is an associate clinical professor and clinical supervisor at the University of California, San Francisco Langley Porter Psychiatric Institute. Dr. Greenberg has written three books and numerous chapters and articles on aging, illness, as well as issues pertaining to women. She writes for Psychology Today online and The Huffington Post. She also speaks to medical, psychological, and public audiences on the impact of illness, caregiving issues, and dealing with the modern medical system as a patient or loved one. She is in private practice in San Francisco.

Greenberg earned a bachelor’s degree in psychology at Hamline University in Minnesota and was awarded the prestigious Jacob Markovitz Memorial Scholarship to continue in the doctoral program at the Minnesota School of Professional Psychology. She graduated in 1997 with a doctorate in clinical psychology with a speciality in clinical health psychology.

 
 

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