Hi All,
Well it’s a beautiful Sunday afternoon in Western
Wisconsin and I am sitting out on my deck enjoying the sun while I write this
blog. I always write on Sunday so that Savannah has time to edit and add all
the amazing pictures she finds. Today we are going to go a different direction
and talk about being happy and finding happiness within ourselves, but first as
always let’s get some dates out of the way.
Tuesday June 9th is the Celtic Tree Month
of Oak. Love oak energy. If you are a student of Nemeton Energy System you know
the amazing power of the strength of oak. This awesome tree has lent me the
strength to get myself through many times I’ve needed emotional support. Oak is
also an excellent energy for doing energy work on people who are in the
hospital and in need of strength.
Get your manifesting list out! The Full Moon is out
on Friday the 13th! So okay,
Friday the 13th is usually looked at as bad, right? But if it’s a full moon and full moon is the
high energy night for bringing in positive, well then, put a positive spin on
the day and the moon will help out! I’ll have to try that as I get caught up in
my everyday problems and just getting through the day like everyone else.
Now let’s chat “Happy”.
For the last—oh I don’t know— year, I’ve had a lot
happen. I’ve bought a house of my own, I’ve had a man that I was very much
connected to leave and just drop off the face of the earth. Course the two of
us have had our own stuff to work out. I’ve tried online dating which hasn’t exactly
panned out. I’ve had my friend Tami from BodyLab
keep me in check and remind me to work on the crap that I need to get out
of the way so that better can come in. I have learned finally that only I can make
me happy. What does that mean?
Well, I’ve learned that any other person cannot make
me happy, that I am responsible for creating my happy. Ha… Tami I learned
something! I have learned and I still work on balancing my energy to create
happy. What does that mean? Well when I
remember, (yes I fall off the wagon and do not practice meditation every day),
I am human, I sit in meditation and focus on my charka that I am working on. Lately
it’s been the heart chakra. Now believe me, I have a lot of work to do but
knowing I have made it a year on my own and coming to terms with staying home
by myself has helped me find happy. And unlike Billy Crystal in City Slickers,
I didn’t need a weekend of being a cowboy in Colorado to find my smile. Although
that would have been fun I think…lol…I don’t know why that popped in my brain.
I can’t tell you how to find your happy but I can
share a little of how I maintain mine. I made a rule that one day each weekend
my car stays parked. I stay home. This is something I learned from Tami. It’s
okay to not be going all the time. I’m on the road everyday to get to my day
job so keeping the car parked a day or two on the weekend has become a blessing.
Today taking an afternoon to sit on my deck and do nothing….okay, well not “nothing”
as my brain is thinking of the new book I’m going to write and I’m getting this
done. But being out here and seeing what I have to do in my yard yet this year,
and what I have done makes me feel happy. Listening to the birds makes me happy.
I’m just being and not focused really on anything = happy. I would have said “bored”
a few months ago.
To find happy find your balance, that’s all I got
for you. When you get stressed do what un-stresses you. If I’m real stressed it
means I need a walk in nature then I feel better and able to deal with the
stressor. If I’m scared, I’m not at peace or I don’t feel safe so I need to
find something to do that makes me feel safe or empowered. A day with my new
hobbie of shooting can cure that real quick!
I want you all to know I do not live like some kind
of guru. I am human and I live as such. I like a cold beer on a weekend after a
day of hard yard work. I get into cycles of not meditating or listening to
guidance. I love chocolate. I am not a vegetarian, nor do I diet. Why? I can’t. LOL . What am I? I am someone who
has experience and knowledge on being psychic and connected to the other side. I
am a healer and fall on that background of being a Reiki practitioner. I was
raised Catholic and when I’m scared I turn to what I know, my guides and Mother
Mary. I do not consider myself a witch, I do not consider myself Christian so
much anymore, although I do cling to some of it. How I define myself makes me
happy. So figure out you. What makes you, well… you? What makes you sad and what makes you happy. Then
just be. Hard yes I know. But I have learned if you can’t love yourself as you
are, then how can you love someone else and how can you expect them to love you
back? Happy is what you create. Follow your inner voice and do your homework to
find out what keeps you happy. Balance in life is a constant struggle. I might
be busy one weekend and feel like I’ve had no time to “me” what so ever. Those
are the weekends or days I need to just remember to take a second and breathe.
I’m not sure this blog has actually addressed
anything….lol it just came out. So
please feel free to comment and leave questions or private email me at intuitivewendy@gmail.com
to maybe bounce some ideas off of me if you’d like.
Have fun this week finding Happy if that is what you
need to do.
Blessings All,
Wendy
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